Tuesday, March 31, 2009

My Friend - Valerie

Today a friend told me that I needed to put a new post of my blog, since it has been too long since the last post. I really haven't had anything worthy to post, and I've been so busy. And the sad thing is, as I sit here tonight, the only thing that I can think about is that today is the day that I lost one of my dearest friends, Valerie Nichols. She passed away on March 31, 2007. She had been ill for quite some time, and she had mentioned several times that she was ready to die, but like most people, I did not really think that she would be leaving me so soon. Even when she went into the hospital several times, I always knew that she would pull through and come home, and then Dave and I would go visit and play cards with her and Ed and spend the evening laughing and having a ball - just as if nothing was wrong. But, two years ago her body was finally too tired to fight anymore, and her heart too weak. As I sit here now, I wish I could pick up the phone and call her for one of our long long late night talks. She was always up late at night and ready to talk. I miss our card games, our shopping trips, our secret jokes, the 30 years of history that 2 people develop as their friendship grows. I hope that there were times I lifted her spirits just a little, just as she lifted my spirits. I will always remember my dear friend, and I know that she is laughing and healthy in the Celestial Kingdom right now.

Save a spot for me at the Canasta table, Valerie.

2 comments:

  1. Thanks for the lovely words about Mom. It's always comforting to know how much others loved her. She certainly was one of a kind. I am so glad she had you as a friend. Love you.

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  2. Barbara I love you so much. You have always been my family. I'm grateful for your friendship and for watching you be a good friend to my Mom. She loved you tons. I hope that she saves me a seat too.

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